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The Gates of Horn and Ivory

Two Gates the silent House of Sleep adorn; Of polish'd Iv'ry this, that of transparent Horn:
True Visions thro' transparent Horn arise; Thro' polish'd Iv'ry pass deluding Lies.

  1. edokitty

    edokitty meow baby

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    ah. I hate it when families fight. My dad told me to never call him again a few years ago..so I don't talk to him anymore. It bugs the crap out of me. I want to cry when I think about it. At the time, I was working part-time and my bills exceeded my income. I asked for money and he gave it me and basically told me lose his number. Now, I am working full time and haven't needed help with $ from anyone in a while. My mom still asks me if I need money even though I don't anymore. She supported me so many years and I should have took responsibility for myself because I wasn't a child.

    I hope you can reconcile with your mother. It's scary when you worry about being homeless especially with you having a child. :(
     
  2. Entervixen

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    Unfortunately we are far past reconciling. She's been threatening us with "legal action" that isn't legal all because I found out she stole my T-Mobile account and took steps to fix it. Last thing I need to do is go in and show my ID to change the default number back to what it started out as, which is mine, but for "unexplained reasons" became hers. Which she wouldn't address at all but is now threatening all this shit including throwing us out and not giving me the account numbers to pay her bills directly and ugh. It's a terrible situation. All because of meth. Once the house 401k that Al is cashing out drops we're gonna bu6 a manufactured home in a park somewhere and never look back and not give her our address and change our numbers so no one can get in touch with us because the whole family is terrible.
     
  3. Umaeril

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    Oh wow, I wish you the best, please keep us posted.
     
  4. Entervixen

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    We're dying. We have about $40 for two weeks, and have to manage to get out to the bay area twice on it. We have nothing else to sell, we have no one to ask, and I need both of those appointments. :( the first one is to set up diabetes care, but the second one is to find out what's up in my brain because my brain scan showed a lot of abnormalities. So of course I'm dreaming of my mom coming by to say that I fucking deserve brain cancer and like that doesn't help brain. :( we have about a weeks worth of food, but out of other stuff we need, like antiperspirant, and I just don't even know any more. :(
     
  5. Umaeril

    Umaeril -o-}}}X{{{-o- Staff Member

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    Wait, what brain scan? What is on it?
     
  6. Entervixen

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    When I was diagnosed with migraines the neurologist ordered an MRI of my brain (CT scan had been done and showed nothing.) The MRI, however, showed multiple lesions, something else which I guess amounts to scar tissue, massive vascular changes, and other stuff that I actually don't know. The changes could be a multitude of things, ranging all over the place in terms of badness, but all the doctor would say is he doesn't think it's causing the daily migraines. I go in August 1st to get the news. I'll keep you updated.
     
  7. Entervixen

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    Ok what the radiologist said (the doctor called them lesions and said there were other changes):

    "Few scattered punctate foci of T2 prolongation within the cerebral white matter which remain entirely nonspecific. Findings are slightly greater in number than expected for age, although again, small vessel senescent/chronic ischemic disease can be considered." And then a list of possible diagnoses. All the doctor would tell me is I have lesions and other changes and he wanted to see me.
     
  8. Entervixen

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    So it's scar tissue caused by the migraines. He s hoping the botox injections will slow it down.
     
  9. Entervixen

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    My mom and her tweaker bf are moving in in a few days. I called legal aid though and they said to get a restraining order, and gave me a phone number to call. Im just so scared though, and I just want this over with. In the middle of the month we will be getting Al's sizeable 401k, because he cashed it out, I'm just hoping we. An buy the manufactured home we're looking at. Like seriously all I want is out.
     
  10. Entervixen

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    We found a manufactured home to buy. The problem is it's in a park... And we have to be approved by the manager. I'm hoping that if my friend is right and if we bring in all the evidence it'll cast us in a more favorable light should she try anything. Ugh if only she hadn't destroyed Al's credit. :( ugh.
     
  11. edokitty

    edokitty meow baby

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    Where are you staying now?
     
  12. Entervixen

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    Unfortunately in mom's house :( she's not here right now, I guess she decided it was a bad idea when my bf tried to pick a fight with my husband, but she comes by every so often to pick something up or pretend to care about her dog. We're gonna need a reference from her, so I had gramma tell her we needed one from both of them (which is true) in the hopes she'll listen to her own mom and not try to fuck us over.
     
  13. edokitty

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    I understand. My husband's mother is like that too. He cut ties to her a long time ago.
     
  14. Entervixen

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    I cut ties with my dad years ago over the same shit. And like her entire family has turned their backs on us, except gramma who sees it now, she just won't admit it. Even my sister is siding with her.
     
  15. Entervixen

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    We signed the final documents and paid the rest, and the latest we'll get the keys is Sunday!
     
  16. Entervixen

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    For people following, we got out! We bought a place!
     
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  17. edokitty

    edokitty meow baby

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    Congrats! Must be nice :3

    We moved the end of August. Like the new place.
     
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  18. Entervixen

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    Thanks! It's nice to be out, but now the full force of everything is hitting me and like its stupid but I'm fucking terrified now. I hate PTSD.

    The good news is my therapist is able to squeeze me in tomorrow, and that's good because omg I need it.
     

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